Can I just dive straight into this? Without any bait and switch, I try to trick you with some opening paragraph to lure you in with a “what could she mean?”
This question of, “As a white person, what do I do?” is a question I have seen posted so many times over the past 3 days, by girls just like me trying to work out how to respond in light of #irunwithmaud, #breonnataylor, #justiceforgeorge.
This time of social distancing and isolation has been stretching to say the least. Not just as it applies to how to live in a pandemic, but beyond that, how do we live in this world, in our society, in our communities. Because as I have been learning to limit my rights for the well-being of others, putting on a mask or staying home, I have been learning another area where I need to set aside self-interest.
Over the past few years I have watched a few of my friends who will post the hashtags or share the stories and I wonder, how did this become the issue they fight for? I watch and weigh out situation after situation, waiting for enough information to come through for me to decide which narrative I am going to believe. I think about people of color who are my family and friends and recognize there is a disparity there, a brokenness there. And it confuses me.
In the face of the brokenness of our country over racial issues, what am I, a white girl, supposed to do?
I don’t have all the answers. None of us do. But this I know. We need to make some decisions about if and how this will change us for more than just the reactionary period of this week. So, here is what I’m going to do.
1) I am going to stop weighing out the value of other people of color against the value of people of color whom I love.
The victim of the crimes that we see on tv, they aren’t valuable because they bear the image of someone who has brought happiness into my life. They aren’t valuable because they remind me of a cute black kid I once knew.
They are valuable because they are image bearers of the living, breathing, God of the universe!
2) I am going to stop worrying if my social media friends will think I’ve gone political.
This isn’t a left vs. right thing. This isn’t an either or. We can expect more out of our law enforcement. We can have a strong police force and not be ok with murder.
Because you know what? Ridding our justice system of these kind of brutalities, it makes the system better! It makes the badge more honorable, not less! It proves the worth of the person in uniform. Demanding justice for senseless acts of violence and inhumanity is to say, “I refuse to let THAT be what defines our justice system.”
3) I will say something, click report, speak up, share.
Why? Because we built this country on the back of an enslaved people group, and even though they are freed, we have since the beginning of that freedom put the burden of restoration and rising up squarely on the same backs that we whipped into submission.
Should I be the one speaking for the black experience? Or the Asian experience? Or the hispanic experience? No! But hasn’t it been long enough that they have been yelling “Listen to me!!!!” By saying something, clicking report, speaking up, and sharing, I am accepting the responsibility of crying out “Listen up!” and silencing the crowd, so that the correct voices can be heard.
4) I will intentionally seek out relationships outside of my race.
And in those relationships I will seek an exchange of care, not looking for some poor soul I can reach out to so that I may better their lives.
Even moreso, I will seek to be educated by people of color on issues that extend beyond racism. I will look to hear their thoughts on the things that matter most to me, theology, family, culture, compassion.
5) I will stop waiting to see if there is more to the story.
If Ahmaud had stolen a hammer from the worksite, would it have justified his murder? If Breonna had gotten out of bed, would it have justified her murder? If George had used a fake $20, would it have justified his murder? No.
What explanation is plausible for this?
6) I will repent.
I don’t have the right to simply grieve or lament.
I have not acted. I have not spoken up. I have “withheld judgement” like I am holding court over media images of dead bodies.
And this one hurts deeply…my silence has become a black mark on the gospel. I have let my God down.
That’s what this white girl is going to do.
If you’d like some resources, check out these links.
https://www.facebook.com/TheBridgeChurchVA/videos/249791866360008
-This conversation by The Bridge Church includes Chris Johnson, the pastor of DUCC, and his wife, along with 3 other couples, one black, one white and one interracial. Good open conversation.
https://mcleanbible.org/sermons/Psalms/7/
-This one includes perspectives from other cultures as well who are impacted by the lack of unity in diversity in our country.
https://medium.com/equality-includes-you/what-white-people-can-do-for-racial-justice-f2d18b0e0234?fbclid=IwAR3yV4GKuCwLcCRp8-MzJpbISC4Lh2f766_9lIkT2u2c5Q31g8OpaeFiiFI
– A list of 75 things white people can do practically for racial justice
Some suggestions of thoughtful voices to follow on social media; Julian Newman, Latasha Morrison, Carlos Whittaker, Tedashii, Be The Bridge
Please feel free to add your own suggestions in the comments.
Text Flyod to 55156 to call for charges to be filed against the arresting officer in the death of George Floyd.